Since pledgeship I have been constantly harassed by a number of pledge brothers, one in particular. Such harassment has interfered with my personal life and has made my experience in […]
I’m a founding father of a brand new fraternity on campus, and the president wants me to be the pledge master. We don’t have any hazing or pledging rituals since […]
My question or rather advice needed is on the expulsion of hazing in the chapter. I know hazing existed when I joined my fraternity. However I wasn’t expecting what came […]
I have to decide this week on which fraternity I want to join. Fraternity A has welcomed me to every event they have had this summer, and I made great […]
My question is about my little brother in the Fraternity. I was heavily involved with fraternity recruitment over the summer and rush week and thus had a pretty good idea […]
Question: There many great qualities that I love about my chapter. We are a recovering chapter (debt, low numbers, etc.) and are addressing multiple issues this year that are going to […]
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This question was submitted by one of our readers. If you have a question you want me to answer go here to submit it: Fraternity Advice. Question: I am the […]
One of my pledges is having surgery on his shoulder next week and the following 2 weeks he will be on Vicoden. This means he will be missing most of the pledging process.
I’m pledging a fraternity and I want to run for an officer position immediately after I pledge. Everyone is telling me it is a huge mistake and that I should wait. I really want to be the New Member Educator next semester, but I fear it isn’t for me. Can you tell me what options I have?
How do I instill pride into my pledges?
My fraternity consistently has struggled the past two years to initiate a high percentage of the men we recruit. Typically, we recruit around 20 men, but initiate somewhere around 12-14.
My fraternity initiation is on Sunday and I’m not sure if I should go through with it. I love all my brothers but I’m afraid to be honest with them. They are so open with me and willing to help and I feel I might not be up to their standards. What should I do?
My fraternity has done the same thing year after year during our pledge period. The brothers have stopped attending pledge nights because the entire pledge program is stagnant. Can you give advice on some good events we can have that will get the brothers interested?
I joined a fraternity this fall because they stood for being different from other fraternities, and not just being a stereotype. Unfortunately, my experiences with them have proved otherwise, and I am losing interest.